Comments on: I’m sorry I made you cry http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=580 Thes - Old English for "this", neuter of thes, of West Germanic origin: Mediolanum - old name for Milan: Lif - Old English for "life", of Germanic origin; related to Dutch lijf, German Leib 'body' Fri, 16 Nov 2018 07:21:49 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.1.41 By: Andy http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=580#comment-1178 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 22:46:22 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=580#comment-1178 @Lola – yes, I’ve now read your entry :-D
Trust me, it’s difficult for me too – makes me sound quite bad – but, Karl was a little different!

@Pietro – welcome back. Does this mean the iPod thing is sorted out? I know I shouldn’t feel guilty but there is some feeling of guilt in spite of that. But, you’re right, V has to start his new life – much of this was his choice anyway, which he knows.

]]> By: Pietro http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=580#comment-1177 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 19:51:55 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=580#comment-1177 After 5 days I was able to access to my pc…Many things to read, but this one reminds me something.
You do not have to feel guilty. It will be hard, after many years. A story ends, but feelings (the deepest ones) remain.
V has to start a new life, but you’ll will always be present in his mind like he’ll be in yours.

]]> By: Lola http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=580#comment-1176 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 19:26:28 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=580#comment-1176 well, I wouldn’t say “good” ;)
ah! Ok, that Karl.
I’ve been reading here for a while but it’s difficult to recall all the names and stories.
Thanks, I’ll read the related posts.

]]> By: Andy http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=580#comment-1175 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 18:18:17 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=580#comment-1175 Hi Lola,

Hope you had a good flight!

It might be the jet lag. It depends how long you’ve been reading here. Some of the things referred to go back as far as Nov 2008, when V & I first split.

The Karl thing really started here and went on for about three weeks (I think). I made a few further entries – starting here and on through the next one and then another here. The ‘Karl thing’ was complicated. :-D

]]> By: Lola http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=580#comment-1174 Thu, 19 Nov 2009 17:17:18 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=580#comment-1174 mmm…. I didn’t get it but perhaps it’s just the jet leg. Karl?!

]]> By: Andy http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=580#comment-1173 Wed, 18 Nov 2009 14:41:04 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=580#comment-1173 Yes, I know it is somewhat easier….but he could be there too, if he really wanted. He is just choosing not to. And it is a choice he is making whilst fully awake. Nonetheless, it leaves me with some feelings of guilt, for sure.

]]> By: Gail Eichinger http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=580#comment-1172 Wed, 18 Nov 2009 13:48:11 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=580#comment-1172 Hi Andy-

Oh my………….such surrender for you both – to what was, no longer is, can never be again. It is difficult, regardless of the new path being forged with you and another – perhaps a bit easier for you – and I say that with all due honor of your pain too – it is just overall somewhat easier when you are forging a new path with another love. I feel it all.

Love you
Gail
peace…..

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