Comments on: Sometimes, I get scared http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=640 Thes - Old English for "this", neuter of thes, of West Germanic origin: Mediolanum - old name for Milan: Lif - Old English for "life", of Germanic origin; related to Dutch lijf, German Leib 'body' Fri, 16 Nov 2018 07:21:49 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.1.41 By: Andy http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=640#comment-1333 Fri, 08 Jan 2010 11:23:40 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=640#comment-1333 Hi TSM,

Yes, I understand. :-D If she’s stuck with you for 8 years then I guess your way works!

BTW – Can’t do inline comments on your blog. It keeps coming up with errors. Just thought you should know and, since I’ve moved PC, I haven’t yet moved my contacts to let you know directly.

]]> By: Supermarket Soap http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=640#comment-1332 Fri, 08 Jan 2010 11:20:18 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=640#comment-1332 Ale and I have been together for 8 years, and I still get scared. Every time meeting is mentioned, I get scared. What if I don’t get along with her so well? What if I say something she takes huge offence at?

But I take it the same way I take all of life – I sail through, see what the damage is afterwards, and assess whether I’ll survive. In the case of Ale, I say things I know may upset her, and every time we come through the other side.

]]> By: Andy http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=640#comment-1331 Thu, 07 Jan 2010 16:06:38 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=640#comment-1331 Thanks to all of you for your comments.

I know I should ‘chill out’ about it all and just let things take their course and, normally, I do.

It’s just that sometimes, it kinda hits me and, yes, scares me a little. But I do love him very much and I am pretty sure he feels the same – and then, when I realise that, I feel good again.

And, yes, Pietro, the things that happened before made us who we are today and, even, where we are today. I even wonder, sometimes, if the reason for the 20 years with V (taking nothing away from those 20 years) was to be here, with F, in this moment, right now ;-)

]]> By: Gail Eichinger http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=640#comment-1330 Thu, 07 Jan 2010 15:58:49 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=640#comment-1330 H Andy-

I understand. Although, now and for years I am not afraid of anything with Skipp. We are ‘together’ no matter what. :-)

ANd also, spending all day – every moment with someone is tough in the best of relationships – we all need space even when we are together. You two are magical, – believe that.

Love to you
Gail
peace……

]]> By: Pietro http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=640#comment-1329 Thu, 07 Jan 2010 15:54:10 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=640#comment-1329 This relation has to grow. You’ll find something you don’t like in F’s behaviour, habits ecc. and F will find something he will not like. But you both can go over them. You know each other since a few months, give time to things and do not worry, you both have to discovered what happened before you met, and in my opinion this is important becasue what happened made what you (both) are now! Things in common will come.

]]> By: Andy http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=640#comment-1328 Thu, 07 Jan 2010 13:39:14 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=640#comment-1328 Yes, I know it’s normal. It’s just that it hits me from time to time and it worries me (as I’m sure it does for everyone) a bit.

Well, we have the same outlook on life with regard to things that (to me) seem important.

And, yes, the holiday would be a big test. Well, we have a few ‘breaks’ lined up for the New Year. A wedding in June, the Hay Festival at the end of May and Tuscany (where he has a flat and where his parents live, etc.) sometime – August? Easter? All these things will ‘force’ us together for an extended time and will be ‘interesting’ and, I very much hope, good.

]]> By: Lola http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=640#comment-1327 Thu, 07 Jan 2010 13:31:08 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=640#comment-1327 I have irrational feelings after 13 years so I think it’s normal to be scared at the beginning of a relationship Andy.
If I were you I would try to understand wheter you have things in common or not (besides music, movies and so forth). I’m sure you do given the fact that you love him so much. Perhaps you’ll find out while on holiday without the Internet and movie theatres… just the two of you away from the big city. Holidays are a good test to measure realtionships.

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