No problem.
I didn’t mean to sound “bossy” (“get a flight”)…I feel bad about it.

I hear what you say. I’ve been doing some more thinking about this and will write another post.

At the moment, things seem a little better. I will know more in the next few days. The decision doesn’t have to be made just yet.

Thanks for your opinion, though, Lola. It is much appreciated.

You already have the answer, Andy.
There are things which are bigger than anything else and illness if one of them. So, forget the people you blame and your personal discomfort and get a flight… if this person has been important in your life.

Don’t get me wrong. I don’t want to push you, this is just my opinion.

So nice to see you here. Yes, me too.

this is so very heavy, wow. I can only say that I hope you make a choice that will allow you the least regret later.

Love you
Gail
peace…..and hope