Comments on: Losing control http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=782 Thes - Old English for "this", neuter of thes, of West Germanic origin: Mediolanum - old name for Milan: Lif - Old English for "life", of Germanic origin; related to Dutch lijf, German Leib 'body' Fri, 16 Nov 2018 07:21:49 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=4.1.41 By: Andy http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=782#comment-1617 Sat, 05 Jun 2010 08:58:55 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=782#comment-1617 OK, I have to take your word for that.
I would NEVER edit comments unless someone expressly asked me to! :-o

]]> By: Lola http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=782#comment-1616 Fri, 04 Jun 2010 18:28:47 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=782#comment-1616 Yes, it was Andy… “to get rid” is not what I had in mind.
You should start editing my comments too ;)

]]> By: Andy http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=782#comment-1615 Fri, 04 Jun 2010 14:12:09 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=782#comment-1615 I’m not entirely sure it was the wrong verb, you know? :-)

]]> By: Lola http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=782#comment-1614 Fri, 04 Jun 2010 13:41:51 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=782#comment-1614 You’re right. I used the wrong verb.

]]> By: Andy http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=782#comment-1613 Fri, 04 Jun 2010 13:30:37 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=782#comment-1613 @Both,

thanks for the comments. Of course, as I’ve been doing this ‘in control’ thing all my life (and I am not so young, so that is a loooong time), it’s not so easy just to switch that off.

I am also aware that, for some reason, once I am out of control I don’t do or say the right things all the time and that I can upset people, which is not what I want to do.

I don’t ‘get rid of emotions’, Lola hahahaha. Oh that I COULD do that? No, I just keep them well inside me as far as I can. Unfortunately, ‘letting it flow’ isn’t quite so normal for me.

Let’s see how this thing pans out. There’s time yet. I have to be ready – or become like the rabbit again! But, on the plus side, the other thing for which I am being like a rabbit may become clearer now that I have this to focus on. At least I have some sort of plan :-)

]]> By: Lola http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=782#comment-1612 Fri, 04 Jun 2010 13:23:47 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=782#comment-1612 Andy,

you can’t avoid emotional things (of that kind) for the rest of your life. You just can’t get rid of emotions! Sometimes losing control is FINE, natural and it’s part of the “let it flow” which is normal.

It’s not about emotional crap, it’s just about life.

]]> By: Gail Eichinger http://thesmediolanumlif.com/?p=782#comment-1611 Fri, 04 Jun 2010 13:14:45 +0000 http://www.vandainmilan.com/?p=782#comment-1611 Hi Andy-

Surrender…………………and trust that the outcome will be as it should.

Love you
Gail
peace……and hope

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