Remember when you were a kid and you had one of those colouring-in books? Page after page of outline drawings that usually came with a pack of colouring pencils.
To start with you had to be shown how to do this. Your first few (or more) attempts were not so good but, when you showed the picture to your parents, your grandparents or, in fact, anyone that would look at it you heard cries of ‘oh that’s very good’ or ‘what a lovely picture’ even if you had only drawn a series of lines and there had been little attempt of block-filling with colours.
After some time, you got better. You learnt that you had to keep the colour within the lines and that the colour had to be fairly even. At first, it did not seem to matter what colours you used. Faces that were green or blue; trees that were red; the sea that was pink. All were greeted with the same encouragement but, in time, you also learnt to make certain bits of the picture the right colour – and still, all within the lines that were preprinted.
What you didn’t realise was that it was one of your first lessons in life. Your parents and schoolteachers never did explain that, once you got the hang of it you should be living your whole life within the lines. Don’t step outside those lines. You could, if you were slightly strange, weird or creative, use the wrong colours – but never outside the lines, otherwise people would not look at the picture with anything other than barely-disguised disgust.
>It is always recognised that, occasionally, the pencil slips and we stray a little outside the lines for a moment but those who permanently stray outside the lines, as if on purpose, should not be allowed to continue their erring ways.
Some people, by only just going outside the lines and blurring the edges of the colours a bit, manage to go through their whole life without being ‘found out’. Others go outside the lines on only one or two occasions and the slip-up, given that the whole picture (it is your life, after all) is so small and insignificant that it is not noticed by other people or, if noticed, is ignored (since they are painting inside their own painting and inside their own lines).
In my picture I have done all of the above, occasional slips, blurring of colours, going outside the lines on small, insignificant parts of the picture.
Keeping within the lines makes us feel safe. Go outside the lines, we were warned as a child, would ruin the picture, making it unsafe.
But, to be honest, it is quite nice, however, scary, to sometimes paint outside the lines; to create your own picture without the restrictions of the lines that are preprinted; to be adventurous and bold; even to add the odd splash of inappropriate colour.
Why not? The finished picture should be your masterpiece!
WOW! I love this metaphor, love it! I have very big spaces of odd colors with blurred lines. My husband has very few lines, mostly spaces with many colors. The lines I/we do try to maintain are those that maintain us – like our home and car, and FREEDOM!!………I could go on and on, I wont though. Let it suffice to say that I will explore this metaphor in great detail. Thanks Andy.
Love Gail
peace…..
It’s a pleasure, Gail. Glad you enjoyed it.
Why not go outside the lines? Sometimes I really like to do something that is completely unexpected, just for the pleasure I get observing what happens around me…
Being always “within the lines” allows you to go out when you want, because no one thinks that you would do!
Hi Pietro,
“Being always “within the lines†allows you to go out when you want, because no one thinks that you would do!”
But when do you go outside the lines???????
Fu$%$%$%$%$g internet connection. I wrote a comment but there was a problem in “establishing database connection” and it went lost! Anyway, I go outside the lines, doing something unexpected, in “my real life”, that is outside work! There, I should be inside, even if many times it is really hard…
Pietro, knowing you at work I find it hard imagining you going outside the lines! But, I guess, that may be true for me too as far as other people are concerned – although there are clues, if you look hard enough.
Sorry about you losing the comment. It’s the problem with having to host my blog on one of the free hosting sites – although this is a lot better than most. Maybe one day I shall pay for it and then it will be better……
In the case of this metaphor, I think my life would be a multi-coloured scribble! I’ve never felt comfortable sticking within the lines, and life gets a lot more interesting (and a LOT less safe) outside the lines.
Oh, and take it from experience, paid hosting is not always the joy they paint it to be. Had to rant to the company which hosts mine the other day. Needless to say it was fixed soon after!
When I read your blog I guess that it’s more like a multi-coloured scribble!
Obviously some of the sites are on paid hosting and you’re right, it’s not perfect. 000webhost aren’t bad really and do respond quite quickly when I submit a ticket. It’s just that Pietro’s problem happens to me too. Perhaps it’s just Italy. Who knows?