That’s not the headline, exactly. Let’s be honest, I have some special interest in this. Not that I’m planning (or was planning) to go and spend some time in Uganda but perhaps now would not be quite the right time, even if I was/had been? This piece, in the Guardian, effectively opens the same debate but with the twist of the readers being able to openly criticise the BBC.
It’s the reactions that get me the most. Both on the Have Your Say site (but only the ones I saw quoted) and on the Guardian site.
I find it amusing that some people are so ignorant that they post things that suggest that, if all gay people were forced onto an island, the ‘race’ of gays would die out. Hmmm, what a splendid idea! Shame that the person shows up how stupid they are. Do they think that my parents were gay? OK, so it seems to have turned out that my sister is gay too and a 50% rate (there were four of us) does seem a little higher than the average but, unless my parents (or one of them) weren’t entirely honest, it is just a coincidence.
And, then, on the Guardian site there are some people suggesting that the BBC should not have asked the question. OK, I can understand that you think people should not be allowed to say this sort of thing and incite hatred (opposition to which seems to be the latest ‘craze’ in the UK) but I, for one, would rather know the kind of people out there. Not talking about it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist in peoples’ minds.
In fact, if Uganda is considering introducing laws to effectively kill people who are gay, then I think it’s perfectly right to ask the question – at least, then, we all know where we stand! And the BBC are saying that the proposed Ugandan law will do exactly that.
There are also those who, apparently, think that killing gay people would be a good idea. They are fed up with all those gay pride marches. Yes, damn me if we aren’t marching through the streets at the drop of a hat in a look-at-us-aren’t-we-normal pose, trying, as we go, to recruit members of the public or, worse, touching them because gay people, as any fule no, are highly infectious!
Actually I have been on two gay pride marches. Two in London. To be frank, quite boring. Sitting on some float trying to be happy with the terrible British weather and a load of people, most of whom I couldn’t stand the sight of. However, whereas now they are just an excuse, the original ones did do something to help [us] and for those people who marched, from that time, I am grateful. Now, I don’t even notice that the marches are happening since the original meaning and requirement has gone. It would be something to see people doing it in Uganda though. Now they WOULD be fighting for something and I would give them a big cheer.
And, for those of you who have come here thinking that I am going to rant about those damned homosexual people and how terrible they are and how they undermine family values and take our jobs and harm our children and are bad people all riddled with disease – then you came to the wrong place. Because none of that is true and it only worries me that you should be so frightened of it. Perhaps you are on some sort of shaky ground yourself? But fear not, I don’t think you can corrupt me into becoming a raging heterosexual. You can keep your weird sexual practices to yourself, thanks. I’m fine, just as I am!
I have gay friends and I’ve never had a problem with that, not even when I was too young to understand the difference between homosexual and hetorosexual. That’s because of my education I guess. My parents have always been very “fair” and when I was a kid they explained me that having different sexual orientations is fine and I shouldn’t make jokes if one of my classmate was gay (which was the case).
All this to say that the adj.ignorant that you used in the post is the right one. Lots of people ignore the issue (it’s not’ even a issue to me) because they’ve been raised as “straight” without an explanation about other legitimate orientatations. I’m glad my parents were very clear and open and I’ll do the same with my kids. I’m sorry to say, though, that my heterosexual friends are not like this. Sometimes they laugh when I’m mentioned a close friend of mine because they know he is gay and I can’t stand it. They are only ingnorant.
Thanks Lola. I’ve found it interesting here, in Italy. It was a bit like stepping back in time. A, one of my friends that I mention often, seems to think that I was the first gay person that he knew! He tries hard to ‘understand’ or, rather, to be understanding.
However, his comment, when V and I split, of ‘Do you think you’ll be looking for a woman this time’, made me laugh as it is clear he doesn’t quite ‘get it’.
However, he has been very accepting and very kind and has accepted that F is with me now even if he was not brought up to understand that each of us may be very, very different.
Normally education is the key – however, there are some people who, for one reason or another, just don’t want to learn! I guess Uganda will be full of those people!