He has to go for the test. It’s been more than six months. He should have gone before. He didn’t because……?
But he’s been worrying about this for a few weeks and, therefore, no sex although, stupid as I am, I only twigged that was the reason, last night.
And it was supposed to be this morning but he had a bad night last night, partly because of my snoring. And, so, he didn’t get up in time. He says he will go tomorrow. I wonder if it’s procrastination on his part?
Also, he said last night that he will go to his parents this coming weekend. I said ‘OK’ – what else was I supposed to say? I don’t really mind at all (and by that I mean, I don’t really mind that I won’t be going) but I wish he had never invited me down in the first place, those weeks ago. If he hadn’t invited me down then I would not have had expectations. I wonder why people don’t get the ‘exceed their expectations and all will be well’?
On the other hand, his best friend from Austria, Fi, may come over for the Furniture Fair and Best Mate has said she’s coming over just after Easter for a few days!
Hi ANdy-
“the test” – always scary. tests of any kind are scary. :-0
I hear ya about the weekend thing – and about expectations being exceeded – if we all exceeded it would be a wonderful world, huh?
Love you
Gail
peace……
Hi Gail,
Yes, I do understand but I think he’s being ‘over scared’ if you see what I mean. I imagine you’ve had a lot of scary tests and so maybe you should know better than most. But, of course, we are scared of the unknown – which is what tests are all about, after all.
And yes, if we all exceeded each others’ expectations it would be a truly wonderful world
Many people procastinate “the test” for obvious reasons. I did it as well, it took me a long time to do it. Although this test is too important to procastinate. If I may, why no sex?
There are ways to protect yourself against potential infections.
I know and I agree with you. But we never like to be told the result of the test if it were not the result we want. Men are certainly worse than women in this regard and I am one of the worst men for this.
No sex when stressed. Stress can come from work or other things and in this case, the test has been looming large for some weeks. I should have realised, really, but I didn’t know that he intended to take the test this week. the result is Friday – but that’s when he goes to his parents so I won’t even see him until the following Sunday or Monday. Not ideal.
Well, it’s totally normal. Stress has a big impact on sex, I have been there too.
No, it’s not ideal but what if you go with him for the results?
Yes, I do understand that and am very understanding about it all. I’ve been there too.
Unfortunately I have to be in work on Friday as we have a really important client meeting on Monday and I have to make sure everything is prepared. And then he’s going straight to his parents (I think). Maybe, I can see what time he will go in and make the offer – it’s a good idea, Lola, thanks.
I have to make sure everything is prepared.
Thanks. I’m totally alone in this, now!!!
BTW, thanks for your help in sending stuff.
Yes, I know you do Pietro but I will be in on Friday morning and we will go through everything and write the presentation together so don’t worry about it. It will all be fine. I sent you an email about it.
And a later post explains why I will be in on Friday morning and not with F.
And it’s a pleasure, as always