Well, of course, as you all, probably, expected, everything was fine. No, that’s not quite right. It was wonderful.
It was a delightful couple of days in Pallanza, in spite of one whole 24 hours of rain. We played cards but it was so enjoyable. B was there, with her friend S and the four of us had fun and relaxed. I learnt some new card games, which was good since F really likes to play cards – and really likes to win, which I find very amusing. I was struck, from time to time, how like V he could be but there are many things, also, that are different and that I really like.
He loves the dogs so much and I love him for that.
And, although he may not say it, he makes me feel loved. And that is, after all, what counts.
As I suspected, he wasn’t that keen on going. Or, at least, that’s the implication afterwards. But he really likes B (which makes me very happy as I do too) and he liked S and liked that everyone liked playing cards (including the fact that the liked that I liked playing cards) and so, after a few hours, he relaxed and enjoyed it. And now he is talking about going back there and spending some weekends there. And as I truly love the place, for me it is great. And now we have something in common
I suppose, the most notable event, apart from me (almost, phew!) losing the keys that B had to lend me because I had forgotten the set at home (!), was the loss of the chocolate Easter Bunny. Bought by Betta for us to enjoy on Easter Day, we left it in the lounge/bedroom that F & I used. The plan was that, after the meal at Osteria Dell’Angolo, we would go back, have a game of cards or two and eat the chocolate egg.
The dogs were out of the bedroom when we got back, in spite of the closed door and greeted us a little too enthusiastically. The reason became clear. The wrapping on the floor and one tiny bow were the only things that remained of the chocolate bunny. I knew it was Dino since Rufus would never have done that. Of course, it being Dino, everyone forgave him almost immediately and everyone was worried as to whether he would be OK, so it stopped me being really angry with him.
But, for me, the real highlight was the fact that F & I seemed to be closer than ever before. And, therefore, Easter was fantastic.
We got back last night and, later, went for a pizza. He said – ‘Imagine how it would have been if I didn’t like dogs’ and, yes, it does make a huge difference that he likes them so much.
I’m glad you had a great time together
I hope you’re more self confident now.
The “dog issue” is paramount. G. sometimes asks the same “imagine how it would have been if I didn’t like dogs”. I can’t even imagine it! If one loves me, he MUST love animals and specifically dogs. Otherwise… he should better look for another partner.
Besides your dogs look ADORABLE
Chocolate can be dangerous for them but obviously he has digested it
Thanks Lola.
Only when I’m actually with him. Doubts set in almost as soon as we aren’t together. It’s what I’m like, I’m afraid
I feel the same way. As I said to him, one of first emails said that I don’t come with huge problems (obviously, because I sort them out here, on this blog) but I do come with two dogs and we are a package.
They are adorable and very well behaved (well, mostly) but a bit smelly and in need of a good wash, cut and blow dry!
Yes, I know it’s dangerous. But there wasn’t anything I could do – unless he was actually ill. He seemed OK. F was more worried about him than I was (or, rather, than I let show)-